As I watch my husband roll the beauty grown from our lovely earth... I found myself drawn to write about LOVE!

Love seems to make most people silly about what is entitled with its presence. I have been married for four years, 6mths, and a few hours, days, seconds give or take, and I have been thru just about everything you can think of (buying homes, serious illness, deaths, births, failures, friends, enemies, fights, makeups, breakups, etc) and still I truly have no firm idea what LOVE actually will pan out to be.

However I do know that most people are FUCKING STUPID about what they think love is going to give them. LOVE takes work!!!!!! PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!! If you think that some nigga is going to come and sweep you off your feet, never worry about him stepping out, still have the best body after 8 kids, never being late on a bill, no fights because we always agree, family vacations, non selfish, and he never forgets a birth day, and/or anniversary you got another thing coming. SLAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love takes work! You need to be willing to drag your feet thru the mud, with burns on your ankles, and still be willing to look your partner in the eye, and say "Yes they are worth it." Love is willing to work with the bad, and completely embrace the good. Loving your partner when it hurts, because that feeling feels good. Love will reward you every time, but only if your in it. Deep in it. Love don't play games!!!! That silly shit of the chase... He calls me, I don't call him. I fuck him, but then he FUCKS me, is a waste of time. You don't LOOK for love, she'll find you! That's it. That's all.